וַיֶּאֱהַ֥ב יַעֲקֹ֖ב אֶת־רָחֵ֑ל וַיֹּ֗אמֶר אֶֽעֱבׇדְךָ֙ שֶׁ֣בַע שָׁנִ֔ים בְּרָחֵ֥ל בִּתְּךָ֖ הַקְּטַנָּֽה׃
Jacob loved Rachel; so he answered, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.”
Genesis 29:18 (The Contemporary Torah, JPS 2006)
Don’t get caught up with this word “love.”
The first two times the word shows up in Genesis, it’s about the love a father has for his son, and the love a man has for his wife.
The next four times it shows up, it’s about how much Isaac loves venison.
When we read that Jacob “loves” Rachel, we don’t need to assume that this is a reflection of the love God has for us.