The Angel’s Name

Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.
But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there.
Genesis 32:29

Then Manoah inquired of the angel of the Lord, “What is your name, so that we may honor you when your word comes true?”
He replied, “Why do you ask my name? It is beyond understanding.
Judges 13:17-18

There are two times in the Bible where people ask an unidentified angel for their names, and in both instances, the angel replies “why are you asking me about my name?” And then they don’t give their names.

Do they not have names? Are they hiding their names? Is this the SAME angel in both instances?

Another odd fact: the angel(s) are “detained” in both stories.

Very strange.

The Angel’s Blessing

וַיֹּ֣אמֶר שַׁלְּחֵ֔נִי כִּ֥י עָלָ֖ה הַשָּׁ֑חַר וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ לֹ֣א אֲשַֽׁלֵּחֲךָ֔ כִּ֖י אִם־בֵּרַכְתָּֽנִי׃

Then he said, “Let me go, for dawn is breaking.” But he answered, “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.
Genesis 32:27 (28) (The Contemporary Torah, JPS 2006)

Why does Jacob demand a blessing from the angel in Genesis 32? There are many thoughts on this, but there may be a simple answer: Jacob can’t confirm that God has blessed him.

In Genesis 27, Isaac blesses Jacob but believes him to be Esau.
In Genesis 28, Isaac gives another blessing to Jacob and then SENDS HIM AWAY to his mother’s family. We already know that Isaac loves Esau and favors him over Jacob.
Later in Genesis 28, God meets him and says He will “bless the families of the earth” through him.
In Genesis 30 and 31, the only mentions of blessing are from Laban, who confirms that God has blessed LABAN because of Jacob, which goes back to the blessing of Genesis 28.

Perhaps Jacob is clinging to this angel and basically yelling to God, “WHAT ABOUT ME?!” Will you bless everyone around me, because of me, and not bless me as well?

And Jacob is about to face off with Esau and is afraid he’s going to die, and all he wants to know is whether or not God will love him enough to bless him.

In response, the angel changes Jacob’s name to Israel and says “this is because you have struggled against God and with men… and have won.”

And then he blesses him.

It’s quite lovely, really. I think the teaching is that when the world fails to love and bless you rightly, cling to the messengers of God and demand a blessing. In your broken-heartedness, perhaps you will experience God’s blessing.

(Important note: the angel does proceed to wrench Jacob’s leg out of socket from his hip! So, do with that what you will.)

Dusty

In an earlier thread, I walked through different interpretations of the man who wrestled with Jacob in Genesis 32. One idea is that Jacob is wrestling with an accusation against him: he has, in fact, taken his brother’s blessing – Esau is rightfully angry.

The word translated as “wrestled” in Hebrew here is a word linked to “dust.” It means “to get dusty.”

And what is Adam, but a man made of the dust? That’s how Adam is introduced. Interestingly, this word “wrestled” (אָבַק) is ONLY used in this section of the Bible; it’s not a common biblical word.

I think we are being shown that Jacob is wrestling with this internal turmoil of how to deal rightly with his wicked brother, who he harmed, and who he believes wishes to harm him in return.

Theophany

When Jacob wrestled with a man in Genesis 32, he says, “I have seen the face of God and lived!”

On the one hand, no he didn’t.

But on the other hand, Jacob thinks he did, and this isn’t theologically problematic. The narrator doesn’t rush in to correct Jacob. Jacob seems to move through life as though he did meet God face to face and is in awe, and we just wonder, “who was that man? How did he rename Jacob to Israel?”

I’m wrestling w/ this text from a Jewish lens, and from a Christian lens. There are so many ways to read this.

Guardian Angels

ויירא יעקב מאד (upon hearing this) “Yaakov was very much afraid;” you may well ask that after Yaakov had been met by angels, as we read at the end of the last portion, and these angels were clearly meant to protect him, what did he have to worry about? This obvious question is answered by our sages by explaining that one of these angels was Michael, Yaakov’s protective angel, whereas the second one was Samael, Esau’s angel. Knowing this, Yaakov had no way of knowing which of these two angels was more powerful.
Chizkuni on Genesis 32:8

There is a fascinating interpretation in the rabbinical texts that suggest that the messengers involved aren’t merely angels, but are two specific angels:
Michael – the guardian angel of Jacob, and Samael – the guardian angel of Esau.

Wrestling with a God of Love

“God is love.”

The consequence of this view is that we must now read challenging passages in scripture through this lens. We must “wrestle with God until He blesses us,” as it were. We must even find a view of the Flood that shows us that God loves us with a compassionate and merciful love. All of us.

It is there if we have eyes to see it.

The Servant and the Man

Genesis 24 does something very strange with Eliezer’s title throughout the text.

For the first 17 verses, Eliezer is only called הָעֶבֶד (ha-eved), or “the servant.”

But then from verses 22 to 32, Eliezer is called הָאִישׁ (ha-ish), or “the man”… seven times in a row.

He isn’t called “the servant” again until verse 53, after Laben and Bethuel agree to let Rebekah go… when Eliezer’s mission is accomplished.

The title change isn’t explained, but it’s quite noticable, even in the English.

There is certainly something special going on. Some wonder if “the angel” that Abraham referenced back in verse 7 is a clue – that Eliezer and the angle are… kind of one and the same, living out God’s divine purpose.

Daniel 9:21 calls the angel Gabriel “ha-ish” as well.

… while I was still speaking in prayer, the man Gabriel, whom I had seen in the vision previously, came to me in my extreme weariness about the time of the evening offering.
Daniel 9:21 (NASB)

Perhaps there is something deeper here that we are supposed to learn. This particular story has layers and layers of divine teaching.

I suspect this is a pivotal theological story.

Three Angels

The angel of the Lord found Hagar near a spring in the desert; it was the spring that is beside the road to Shur. And he said, “Hagar, slave of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?”

“I’m running away from my mistress Sarai,” she answered.

Then the angel of the Lord told her, “Go back to your mistress and submit to her.” The angel added, “I will increase your descendants so much that they will be too numerous to count.”

The angel of the Lord also said to her:
“You are now pregnant
and you will give birth to a son.
You shall name him Ishmael,
for the Lord has heard of your misery.
He will be a wild donkey of a man;
his hand will be against everyone
and everyone’s hand against him,
and he will live in hostility
toward all his brothers.”
Genesis 16:7-12 (NIV)

There is a teaching in the Midrash that suggests Hagar may have been visited by separate angels in Genesis 16. They each seem to have their own message:

verse 7: God’s call.
verse 9: Comfort and instruction.
verse 11: Truth and justice.

In Genesis 18, three men (angels) will appear to Abram… and then later, only two angels will travel to rescue Lot from the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah.

Perhaps this is related.

Slave of Sarai

The angel of the Lord found Hagar near a spring in the desert; it was the spring that is beside the road to Shur. And he said, “Hagar, slave of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?
“I’m running away from my mistress Sarai,” she answered.
Genesis 16:7-8 (NIV)

When the angel first speaks to Hagar, he identifies her as “slave of Sarai,” and the rabbis debated over why this title is applied. Isn’t slavery bad?

It may be that the angel was telling her that she would be a slave forever, stating that this is her identity.

But there is another view, and it’s far more hopeful. After saying “slave of Sarai,” the angel draws a line in the sand:

Where have you come from?
Where are you going?

In these questions, perhaps clarity is given to us: the blessing Hagar is about to receive is not because of her status as an Egyptian, where hard labor and works defined her worth, but as her status as a member of the house of Abram. Of the blessings of God.

It’s awful that Sarai is harsh and cruel and that she chooses vengeance instead of grace, and that Abram says nothing. We can be that way at times.

Despite this, perhaps the angel is affirming Hagar’s proximity to God’s blessing. Perhaps it’s not about her her slave status.

If you’ve been mistreated by the people of God, but long to draw near to God anyway, perhaps the angel of God will come to you and ask you the same:

Where have you come from?
Where are you going?

God is with you.

To Life!

She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: “You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “I have now seen the One who sees me.” That is why the well was called Beer Lahai Roi; it is still there, between Kadesh and Bered.
Genesis 16:13-14

Translators and our concordances provide us with the plain and literal meanings of things, which is useful.

In Genesis 16, “Beer Lahai Roi” can be understood as the “well of the Living One seeing me.” The text basically explains itself in the passage.

But the Rabbis point out something else interesting here.

“Beer” (or Be-ayr) is well, or pit, or spring of water.
“Hai/Chai” means “living one,” like souls or living beings.
“Roi” means to see, but also the way a prophet sees. Just not eyeball vision, but like… having a vision.

So we get this “well of the living one who sees.”

Here it is in Hebrew: בְּאֵר, followed by חַי, and then רֹאֶה combined into this one compound word: בְּאֵר לַחַי רֹאִי

Say to him: ‘Long life to you! Good health to you and your household! And good health to all that is yours!
1 Samuel 25:6 (NIV)

Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra says the phrase “beer l’chai” is like the phrase “ko l’chai,” which we read in 1 Samuel 25. It’s a cheer of blessing, which means “To life!” or “So may you live!”

If you’ve studied Hebrew or listen to Jewish people, you may have heard the phrase “lechaim” (or “L’Chaim”) which contains the same phrase as a cheer: “To life!” It’s the same thing.

That is why the well was called Beer Lahai Roi; it is still there, between Kadesh and Bered.
Genesis 16:14 (NIV)

So in this verse, ibn Ezra directs us to this phrase: “It is still there.”

The well was so called because the Ishmaelites held annual festivities at this well. It is still in existence and is called the well of zamum.
Ibn Ezra on Genesis 16:14b

In his commentary, he writes that even at his time (ibn Ezra lived from 1089 to 1167), it was common knowledge that the sons of Ishmael once held festivities there as an annual tradition.

He reasons that the phrase “l’chai roi” was a cheer of blessing, meaning “to seeing life NEXT YEAR!

So the name of the well can also be understood as a promise to Hagar that Ismael will be born next year: it’s in the next year that you’ll see the promised life. L’chai Roi.

BEER-LAHAI. Beer lahai means the well of him who will be alive next year.
Ibn Ezra on Genesis 16:14a

The astute student of Scripture should get goosebumps here.

But my covenant I will establish with Isaac, whom Sarah will bear to you by this time next year.”
Genesis 17:21 (NIV)

In our typical speed-run through scripture, we read that God later tells Abram that Ishmael is not the son of the covenant, but “by this time next year,” the covenant with Isaac will be established.

But this “life by next year” was already given to Hagar.

This doesn’t take away from Isaac or Abram and the covenant God makes with them. But what it does is firmly establish that God cares deeply for the oppressed: those who suffer will get God’s attention first. God will not abandon those who cry out to him due to their afflication.

In due time.

L’chaim.